I'm very depressed, help?

Another person cannot make you happy. I suffered from depression and i found that out. You'll start having unrealistic expectations of that person to always make you happy, and that will never happen. I went to counseling, and realized that you have to be content with yourself before you go looking for someone else. you have to love yourself before someone else can love you. also, try praying. That's how i found God. My soon-to-be fiance left, my grandfather went to jail for murder (wtf??) and my dog of six years got hit by a car. all in a week. i hit my knees, and i stood up smiling :]