Thursday, July 21, 2011

Do you think I really loved my ex boyfriend?

He needs to save you as much as you need to save him. You cant be the only hero in the relationship. But he sounds too immature to be able to save you just yet. If you really think its meant to be, and you really want it to work out, then you have to give him more time. Trust me. I spent the longest time trying to get closer to this guy, when in reality, i was just pushing him away. You have to ignore him for awhile, make him want you, make him need you, make him miss you. And in the end, if its meant to be, it will be :) xoxoxo darling i hope i helped :)

Why does my 1 year old kitten/cat attack scratch and bite my face and hair?

My fiance and I adopted 2 cats from a local shelter about 5 months ago. Karl (our 2 year old neutered male) is soooo sweet and smart and he loves to jump and play. Karl can jump for a toy/treat over 4 feet! He also sleeps in our bed at night, right next to my head. <3 Raja on the other hand... he likes to hide and can only eat a treat if its hand fed from me. Raja is younger (vet thinks about 8 months) and he is very aggressive. I feel that he is this way because my fiance FORCES him to cuddle and be held... I let raja go free when he cries, my fiance does not. He says that all cats learn to be cute after this... I think its making raja more mean. What do you think? I could really use some help/support here because I have never had indoor cats before this. Also, Raja scratches my fiance's face HARD and makes him bleed nearly every day. I don't like this behavior but I feel like its not the cats fault.

Its been over 2 years but still no commitment not even dating. what should i do? am i getting played or what?

This guy and I have been sleeping together on and off for almost 2 years now, we go out to dinner or to do something fun, I know his whole family and go to his family gatherings, we can just lay in bed and talk and cuddle all night without having sex. He kisses me with passion not just a stupid peck, he says he cares about me. I am currently almost 9 months pregnant but not with his child, with someone i dated for a short time now my daughters father is no longer around and hasnt been since 8 weeks, then him and I started our weird relationship again and he calls every single night to tell me goodnight and to have me put my phone to my stomach so he can tell her goodnight, brings me food or whatever im craving at anytime of the night even tho he lives 20 minutes away, goes to my doctors appointment with me but yet we are still just friends. He was married before and his wife was killed in a car accident on there 2 year wedding anniversary. he was driving but it wasnt his fault. that was 6 years ago and she was his only love, they were together since they were 13. he is now 30 and keeps saying it makes a horrible bf because he focuses to much on his video games but yet ive never seen it. he also says he isnt ready for another commitement because he is scared of loosing someone else. Does it sound like im getting used just for sex or could there maybe be some truth to what he is saying. I really love him and he knows that but doesnt say anything back really. I hate giving up hope but ive never felt like this before with anyone else and i think thats why i always go back to him.

Should I stop smiling?

You know what I think? Forget them! I mean, you know it's true, so what's the problem? If they think otherwise, then maybe they're just jealous of your smile... or something. I don't know, just talk to them about it... but whatever you do, just don't stop smiling... be yourself! Who cares what other people think?

Why does my GF like my fat (10 points)?

its fluffy and generates heat and as a teddy bear myself i know how it is:p it isn't really a bad thing just let her cuddle up and enjoy the happiness~

Why does my husband find me more attractive (10 points)?

my husband and i are 27 have been married for 2 years. last year i was thin and went to the gym a few times a week and my husband and i had a good sex life and cuddled often. now i got a promotion at my job and i have been working more, so i guess i havent been able to work out and started eating more and i guess "let myself go" so i have gained some weight in the past year. so now im chubby. you would think he would be less attracted to me but he seems more into me and its like he cant keep his hands off of me. all he wants to do is cuddle and we have sex WAY more often than when i was thin .when we hug and kiss he likes to grab onto my rolls or love handles. like yesterday when he got back from work (he is a sports writer btw) we hugged and kissed and he put his arms around me and started squeezing and grabbing my fat. at first i felt really uncomfortable with him touching me, but after awile i was ok with it. i do have bigger breasts and a bigger butt now, so maybe thats why he is more attracted to me. i would get it is was chubby before and lost weight and then was more attracted to me, but i dont get it with this scenario. i know im his wife and he will always love me but you can love something and not be attracted to it like after my older sister had her baby she had gained 40 pounds because of her pregnancy and she told me that recently her husband could not even look at her :(. if it helps answer the question he is a big guy and has been oveweight since the day i met him

Why does my GF like my fat (10 points)?

Thats really a hard question to answer. Some chicks just dig big dudes. Theres no answer to it, they just like having someone big to squeeze and mess around with.

Should I stop smiling?

You know what I think? Forget them! I mean, you know it's true, so what's the problem? If they think otherwise, then maybe they're just jealous of your smile... or something. I don't know, just talk to them about it... but whatever you do, just don't stop smiling... be yourself! Who cares what other people think?

Why did this girl say im ugly?

I went on a double date with my friend. Mine was a blind date. I'm 21 she's 19. We went to the movies and out to eat. We cuddled a lot and kissed once and I was rubbing all over her leg. I know she liked it because she's like that and she sleeps around with guys a lot. But I never heard from her after that and she told her friend she regrets doing it because I'm ugly.... ? I've slept with hotter girls than her. What is this about? Also, does being shy make a guy ugly even if he's cute?

GUYS....WHAT DO YOU THINK HE THINKS OF ME...GOOD OR BAD ...?

i thought we really hit it off in every way. started talking. eventually hooked up..had sex 3 times in one night the first time. we probably had sex about 6 times total. we'd spoon and cuddle all night afterwards. he told me how attracted he is to me, and didn't pressure me to have sex. but then he stopped contacting me out of the blue, after i met all his friends and whatnot. i was confused..turns out he was seeing someone else. got himself a girlfriend :/ i called him back in february just to check if he was alive but the phone convo was a little weird. haven't heard from him since then..we had such a connection though, met totally randomly. ugh. do you think i ever cross his mind or not?? we are friends on facebook as well.

We went 5 yrs w/o talking but i still love her?

i graduated college 5 years ago. Throughout the time there I had a good friend, who i was really attracted to and loved, but bc of different circumstances (i was with her best friend at college before i met her) i couldnt be with. all we had were a few kisses, cuddling, a lot of flirting and a few serious talks. after schol we then didnt talk for 5 years until she messaged me out of the blue Saturday. I still love her, i know that bc i cant stop thinking about her. now she lives in maryland, i live in boston. how can i smoothly find out if she still thinks of me romantically? nd how can i do things to improve her interest from so far away?

American Dad Question?

He's called Turlington and he's voiced by Forest Whittaker. He is a parody of the same actors character Lieutenant John Kavanaugh in the TV series "The Shield" See here a href="http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0001845/" rel="nofollow"http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0001845//a

What is your favorite all time movie?

Mine is definitely Man On Fire with Denzel Washington. Everytime it gets to the song "una palabra" it makes me cry.

Summary On Movie Glory?

Glory is a celebration of a little-known act of mass courage during the Civil War. Simply put, the heroes involved have been ignored by history due to racism. Those heroes were the all-black members of the 54th Regiment of the Massachusetts Volunteer Infantry, headed by Col. Robert Gould Shaw (Matthew_Broderick), the son of an influential abolitionist (played by an uncredited Jane_Alexander). Despite the fact that the Civil War is ostensibly being fought on their behalf, the black soldiers are denied virtually every privilege and amenity that is matter of course for their white counterparts; as in armies past and future, they are given the most menial and demeaning of tasks. Still, none of the soldiers quit the regiment when given the chance. The unofficial leaders of the group are gravedigger John Rawlins (Morgan_Freeman) and fugitive slave Trip (Denzel_Washington), respectively representing the brains and heart of the organization. The 54th acquit themselves valiantly at Fort Wagner, SC, charging a fortification manned by some 1,000 Confederates. Glory was based on Lincoln_Kirstein's -Lay This Laurel and Peter_Burchard's -One Gallant Rush; the latter book was founded on the letters of Col. Robert Gould Shaw, the real-life character played by Matthew_Broderick. The film won a Best Supporting Actor Oscar for co-star Denzel_Washington, and additional statuettes for Best Cinematography (Freddie_Francis) and Sound Recording. Hal Erickson, Rovi

I am scared of learning about the human body?

In science class we are going to learn about the body and it really freaks me out. When I get really scared or nervous I hyperventilate a little. We are going to go on a field trip to a body works exhibit and I heard that people have fainted there and there is dead bodies there. How can I deal with this?

Should I get a Ferret?

Hi, I live in the country side and my bday is coming up and I might be getting a dog but then I though tof ferrets. I also have a cat, will my cat kill it? Do ferrets hang around in cages and can I cuddle them or do they bite? neeeeeeedddd ADVICE!!

Why do so many New Yorkers that become famous move to LA and become Laker fans?

It really annoys me. So many native new yorkers claiming new york but riding the Lakers bandwagon. Denzel Washington and Alyssa Milano just to name a few. Why is this?

I'm looking for an Alexander McQueen quote from the Met?

I can't remember the quote but I saw it while I was in the Savage Beauty exhibit, I know it was something like : 'I imagined an evil scientist cutting up all these woman then piecing them back together.' I looked all over the internet and I couldn't find it. Does anyone know this quote or find it?

Since there hasn't been an amendment to the Constitution who has the power to declare War?POTUS? Congress?

Congress is the only body which can declare war on other countries. The problem with a "war on terror" is that there's no country to declare war on; it's not as clear-cut. It's more a matter of opinion than interpreting the wording of the Constitution.

Is it true that white people prefer light skin blacks?

Well I'm not black, I'm south asian but am pretty dark and I've dated a english white guy, he said he loves dark skin and loved my skin colour. Sorry to state the obvious but all guys are different some love darker exotic skin and some prefer fairer skin.

Why does my puppy still have diarrhea?

Ok, this is a long story so I'm going to try to some it up. I have a 6 month old small breed puppy that was spayed three weeks ago. The day after her surgery she had diarrhea about 6 times, so we took her back to the vet. The vet thought she might be sensitive to her pain medicine so took her off of it and put her on an antibiotic/antidiarrheal and a diet of boiled chicken and rice for 3 days. A week after the spay I came home from work and the puppy had diarrhea and vomited all over and continued to do so - both were dark brown in color. I rushed her back to the vet where they told me that she was probably allergic to the antibiotic and told me to stop giving it to her, but gave her two medicines; one for diarrhea and one for an upset stomach and to put her back on the bland diet for at least a week. The next day we were back at the vet as her incision from the spay was oozing, there was no infection but they put her back on a different antibiotic. The day after that she was not eating, started vomiting and was lethargic the entire day (this was the first time she exhibited symptoms other than diarrhea/vomiting) the vet told us to stop the new antibiotic but keep her on the two medicines for her tummy. She seemed to be doing better so after a week of no vomiting we started weaning her off the bland food by mixing her kibble in, and then increasing the kibble and decreasing the rice until she was on just kibble. The first day she was off the bland diet she pooped ALOT (6-8 good size poops) but we thought maybe she was just backed up from all the rice. The next day she started having loose stools but we figured she needed time to adjust to being back on regular food. We haven't given her anything other than kibble, no treats or rawhide or anything. For the next two days she had diarrhea on and off, and today it has been all diarrhea thats a nasty yellow color. I tried calling the vet tonight but they closed early, and since she is acting ok I didn't feel the need to call the emergency clinic, so I will call our regular vet in the morning. She is still acting fine, even a little more rambunctious than usual, and until today had a pretty healthy appetite. I am worried about her, and concerned that with the medicines (which she finished a week ago) and the bland diet may help but they are only treating the symptoms, not the actual problem. I do not know if it was related to the surgery or not, only that it started right afterward. Has anyone else experienced this with their dog, or do you have any ideas or questions that I can talk to the vet about? Thanks!!!!

I don't get along with my dad and this is alright?

If I were you get a full time job, pick up a hobby, and move out. Its a start.. Keep yourself too busy to worry about it. Good luck! (Wish I could say something else to help with your relationship with your Dad.)

Why was denzel washington arrested?

tax evasion - he failed to submit a return for 5 years or something like that, so I assume he paid a little less than he might have as well.

How can I get my parents to see that social interaction is irrational, and I should be left alone?

Surely you are aware that you haven't yet "eliminated" your need for attention, or you wouldn't keep posting this OVER AND OVER AGAIN.

Who do you think is the best actor of last two decades when you talk of the intensity on the screen?

Brad Pitt, Tom Hanks, Leonardo DiCaprio, Edward Norton, Denzel Washington, Russell Crowe, Hugh Grant, Matt Damon, George Clooney, Ethan Hawke.... Just tell me who

Will he want to? and how do i?

Since it seems he always follows your lead when you guys are making out, slowly take it to the level that your in the mood for, if he is just as interested he will be right there with you .

Need Opinions and knowledge whether I have Appendicitis or a different illness?

Go to a doctor. There could be many causes for abdominal pain, and appendicitis is known to cause pain near the navel, especially in the beginning. Could be nothing, but there's no way to tell without a physical exam and/or testing.

Im so confused:/ What do i do?

ok so i have been dating this guy for a ouple of months, hes everything i have ever wnated except one thing.. and to be honest i dont know what it is. When we first met he asked me for my number and i gave it to him, then we started hanging out and he always wanted to talk and text. So he was kinda benig annoying but then i really started liking him. Well he is not originally from here, he moved here to be with this girl he was dating a while ago. Well we started hanging out more and more. and then we got a hotel together bc i live with my parents and he lives with her so we couldnt hang out with each other. He didnt try to do anything with me when we layed in the bed or anything. He knew i was cold the first night so he cuddled with me and he cuddled with me for a few days, and i made the first move.He had court one day, and he left at 7:30 in the morning and his court time was at 9:30. But he was gone all day. So he texted me from his phone pretending to be his brother and told me that he had gotten locked up and all kinds of things, i knew it was him bc i knew how he texted. But i played along and he asked me how i felt about him, and i told him then i told him that i knew it was him the whole time. So then we started dating and he has a hard time trusting people so he didnt open up. And he would just randomly not come back to the hotel, and he would tell me he was going to his brothers to do laundry. I believed him, until i found out his brother had moved to a diff city 4 days before. Well he bought me flowers and a card, and apologized for lieing. And these werent cheap flowers. So i thought he was sserious that time, well he did it again but didnt say he was going to his brothers he told me straight up he was going to that girls house, but he lives there. Theres no where else for him to go where im at bc all his family lives in a dif state. Si i understand he had to go back there sometimes so she didnt kick him out and he would have no where to go. But then he started opening up to me.. and everything but then the other night we were texting and he said that he missed me, and he wanted to hear my voice, and loved me. so i said call me and he said he was tired. so i didnt text him bac bc i went upstairs to do something and my phone was downstairs, and he had texted me twice and was like y are you mad and i said im not mad was just doing something, then i said i just dont understand y you wouldnt call someone if you missed them, and he said ok i will call you in a min when i get up out of bed and i said ok. he never called or texted me.. so we were suppose to go do something together today, and i woke up had no texts or missed calls from him. so i called him went straight to voicemail, 30 mins later i call him it rings but no answer. so for the rest of the day it went straight to voicemail, then i called him a hr ago and it rang but no answer.. its so weird and im so confused!!! sorry bout how long it is just had to get my point across so you would understand.. but someone tell me whats going on what should i think or do.. am i overreacting??

Would you say that we are now gf and bf ?

Well it like 20 years old and it's my first proper relationship I met her in feb and we started seeing each other in April 2 and half months a go I been shopping with her holded her hand been to the movies been to a DVD rental store and I've got my arm round her waist and she leaning her head on my chest and cuddling up to each other watching tv. I asked her 2 weeks a go to be my gf she said "I like the way we am now" but I think we are gf and bf by what we are doing plus it's like I had a picture taken with my mom on a day out and I was showing the girl I'm seeing the pics from the day out on my phone and when I come to the picture with my mom straight away she said "who's that" I said my mom she said "oh that's alright then" and smiled lol what would you say about us now

It's a two year "love" story? How would you qualify him?

I think he's opened the door and is peeking out. Give him time and just be there for him. I'm guessing he's pretty torn inside and is in dire need of a good friend first before anything else. Good luck dude.

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

What's your favorite movie by these actors?

Johnny Depp is my fav actor of all times! my fav movie that he was in was the curse of the black pearl; captain jack sparrow :)

How come my brother can have girls over but I can't have a BF? My brother keeps scaring away my dates?

Because girls can get pregnant whereas boys cannot. Plus he is older and more mature. But if you do have a problem then tell him, confront him, black mail him, or just annoy his dates as much as he annoys yours.

Wanting some more opinions on what my friend said while drunk?

Here's some advice: Don't write an essay next time. I hate reading paragraphs on here and it's summer so just chillax and have a drink

Why do my pugs feet smell like tortilla chips?

ok so i was cuddling with my dog (a two year old pug) and i noticed her feet smell like... tortilla chips? wtf? is she going to like, sh*t out salsa next? So confused >.< Can I fix this? Is she sick? Wtfff

My wife claims she is very guarded cause I dint give her enough attention during our years of marriage?

ok here is the deal, first I know Im guilty of not taking care of her enough for the last 2 years or so, we do have a beautiful little one she is also 2 years old, a month ago she told me she wasn't Happy and she was going to move out, I asked her why and she tell's me that I dint do enough around the house and I dint help her out enough, so here is the deal this morning she finally told me that what she was in needing was, not material things only love, being touch being told she is very appreciated cuddle and all that very important things in marriage, my problem is she say she still love me, but not in love with me at the moment, now that I know what she needs I want to make sure that I give her everything that her heart needs, just wondering if any one specially Ladies are being in a similar situation, I really love this Girl very very much. Please if any one being there let me know.

Boyfriend is weird after sex?

Orgasm cause "mental exhaustion" - each guy respond differently for this. One will fall asleep right after the orgasm. One will relax by smoking. But yes, it cause us to be somwhat different - so don't worry it doesn't mean anything about how much he loves you.

I think I'm bi and in love with my best friend?

What I would do is maybe just tell her your bi. Telling friends is easy. Give it time. Maybe she feels the same maybe she doesnt. But take it one step at a time. If telling her you have feelings for her might complicate things, might push you guys aways a little, I would put that aside for now. Tell her your bi and see how things go, if after times you have more feelings towards her than tell her.

What is up with this guy?

this guy and i have known each other for 2 years and in the past month got really close. we hold hands, cuddle and he plays with my hair. we never kissed or anything and when i rub his thigh he moves and shakes his head. well i only did it when my brother was in the room so do you think its just because of my brother or am i moving to fast or what?

Go Click Cash Review - Anyone?

Sounds like scam to me. Good luck cancelling your hosting with Brainhost, read the reviews in the link

Does he want to be just friends with benefits?

I've been talking to this guy for a while and today was technically the 1st time we've hung out. We were at my house and my brother was there so sexual activity was (thankfully) limited. While we watched a movie we talked, kissed, and cuddled. Sounds good, right? Then tonight we were texting and we started discussing what mightve happened if my brother hadn't been there (i know, it's like I'm askin for him to mention sex, but we were just messin around). In 1 text he said he would like to just hold me while we watch a movie (cute). But then BOOM, next text he says maybe then his boys could feel a lil happy (and I'm assuming by boys he meant his dick?). Now I'll be honest, before now he has mentioned sex, but what else do you expect from a teenage boy? But the thing that bothers me is he's never mentioned a relationship or anything. I know he told some of his friends that me and him were hanging out, so he isn't exactly keeping me a secret but I'm still skeptical. We talk about a lotta stuff besides sex and I also know he likes me but..i have trust issues. Lol so are we destined for friends with benefits, or something more? And if it's heading for the FWB direction, is there anything I can do to change that, or is it too late?

Help? Psycho Kitten???? Please?!?!?

Hi. Um, my Kitten has just turned 3 months. He is a male, and half bengal half tabby (SO gorgeus!!!) He follows me around everywhere. But doesn't cuddle or anything. But that is not the problem. He REPEATEDLY does stuff he shouldn't. For example, when we got him about a month ago he kept jumping on the table. We spray him with a waterbottle and/or tell him no and/or smack him on the bottom and/or shake him. He doesn't become discouraged no matter how much FORCE we use with him, he becomes indignant and just goes upi there faster. The more we get upset with him the more he does to irritate us it seems. ): I really love him but my parents are talking about getting rid of him if he carries on like this in another few months with no sign of improvement. He was taken from him mother at about 4-5 weeks (WAY to young!!!!!) and put into a barbie commercial (I did NOT approve) and then we bought him from the producer of the commercial. We understand that is probably the cause of most of his problems but most cats will GET it when you tell them off enough times (I know they don't have much brains, but seriously I have cats tons of times before and they ALWAYS make the connection "table equals spray or smack equals stay away" whereas this stupid adorable kitten seems to make the connection "Table equals spray or smack equals me want to do it more to irritate mommy!") So what is his problem??? If you need to know anymore details don't hesitate to message me at aubreylovesskittles@yahoo.com thanks!!! I REALLY appreciate it!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE him soooo much I DONT wanna get rid of him!!!! In fact he has FINALLY had his ONLY nap of today right now and he looks so peaceful and cute!!. Seriously this kitten actually RUNS around the room for like 12 hours STRAIGHT before he decides to slow down and walk let alone have a nap!!!!!! Thank you!!!!

How to carry children ?

It's not exactly abuse, but it's not a good way to carry little kids. They can cause breaks, or at the very least pulling the arm out of socket. I know this from experience, when I was 5 my grandfather pulled me by my right arm and it went out of socket. I still remember how badly it hurt.

Are Zendaya and Bella Thorne dating? what's the deal with them?

these two girls are from shake it up. they may be best friends, but it's a little too much, they sit on top of each other, they hold hands, they always hug and cuddle with each other...like if their lesbians that's really digusting. What do you think?

What do you think of famous people that majored in theater?

Do you think that when they were majoring in theater that friends, family members were telling them it was a waste of time? Tina Fey, Denzel Washington, Rachel McAdams, Bridget Regan, and others majored in theater/drama in college. I wonder if other people in college were telling them it was a waste of time and money and to major in something more "realistic."

Why does my GF like my fat(10 points)?

im the same way with my bf.. im skinny and i never dated anyone bigger before and now that i have, i dont wanna go back! he is your size exactly, but taller but 260 lb about. for some reason i love that he is bigger when i used to be grossed out by it but that was when i had never dated a bigger guy. but of course I do try to tell him to maybe exercise or eat healthier for the sake of his health and our longevity as a couple, but if he could be healthy and big i really wouldnt mind.

Was i used or not???????????????????????????…

i thought we really hit it off in every way. started talking. eventually hooked up..had sex 3 times in one night the first time. we probably had sex about 6 times total. we'd spoon and cuddle all night afterwards. he told me how attracted he is to me, and didn't pressure me to have sex. but then he stopped contacting me out of the blue, after i met all his friends and whatnot. i was confused..turns out he was seeing someone else. got himself a girlfriend :/ i called him back in february just to check if he was alive but the phone convo was a little weird. haven't heard from him since then..we had such a connection though, met totally randomly. ugh. do you think i ever cross his mind or not?? we are friends on facebook as well.

Really weird dreams.or are they dreams?

First things first.. What an emotional story! I feel for you, truly. I lost my grandad to Huntington's disease a number of years ago and in the final stages it can be painful to witness. Luckily like yourself I don't carry the defective gene, for which I'm eternally grateful. Your brother, bless his soul, must have been in a very bad place mentally at the time, but you can surely take some solace in the fact that he didn't suffer for the final few brutal years of the illness. In regards to your dreams, in my opinion they will be caused both by your PTSD and your medication. They sound extremely vivid and dreams like that can confuse/scare/bewilder us. I agree with the above answer that writing your dreams down after they've woke you up may help you make sense of it all. And I also agree with the other comment in the sense that, although you have suffered all this loss and pain, you are still here. Make a difference, raise money for the cause to defeat the illness that took your loved ones (Huntington's Disease Association) so that you can feel proud in the fact you may have spared someone else the same pain that you've felt. Keep your head held high and above all enjoy life! It only happens once. I truly wish you the best of luck in your life and I hope you succeed in making some sense of it all.

I'm afraid I might lose her....?

I'm trying to become a better teenaged boy by following Jesus. My girlfriend says she is proud of me and she is with me all the way, she's trying too. But we aren't going to be able to do anything together, no more hugging, kissing, or cuddling because her parents don't approve of it. I'm scared that she may get fed up with not getting what she wants with me and it either result in cheating or leaving me. I'm really concerned about this.

Are U As Heartbroken As I Am?

My wonderful sweet guinea pig, Mancow, died yesterday June 26. I am so heartbroken. What a sweet baby he was & such a great personality! I will miss his little sounds & his special way he loved to cuddle with me. I buried him in my back yard next to his friend Harriette. I am having a new fountain put in behind his resting place so I can sit back there & have peaceful time remembering his special little place in this Cosmos. I have always loved animals & still have my 2 cats & 4 dogs but this little black guinea pig had my heart! Just wanted to share this with my Y/A family!

Which of these do you think is the better actor?

This is just my opinion. I think Kevin Spacey is the better actor. He can be a dramatic actor and still be very funny and charming at the same time. He's very talented and one of my favorite actors. A good example of one of his great performances is when he's playing Lester in American Beauty.

How can I get my parents to see that social interaction is irrational, and I should be left alone?

You cant! Life needs interaction and without it you would develop lousy social interaction skills which would mess up all your future jobs and would deem you socially awkward :D

Why does my GF like my fat (10 points)?

1,000,000,000th time this question has been posted....and i will say the same thing again: Just be lucky your fat disgusting insecure whiney a$$ got a gf.....wait, if you DO have a gf, why are you on here 24-7 posting the same damn question? Shouldnt u be out with her or talking to her...or better yet, working out?

Sci-fi story help, how would you be able to look back in time?

Theoritically you could see anything that has ever happened on earth from space if you had a big enough telescope mounted to an engine that could move faster than light. You would need to know how far away to go from the earth before looking back, but if the telescope was strong enough you could focus it on the precise spot and see what happened. Stick an ultra-powerful computer to that and it would, theoritically, work.

Is my body continuing to show signs of pregnancy?

Last night I posted this "Exactly a week ago my boyfriend ejaculated a large amount of sperm directly into me, it was the last day of my menstrel cycle, and I didn't take emergency contreceptives. So far I have had people tell me I feel oddly warm and my breasts are sore. Furthermore I've been slightly nausious. I know taking a test is the smartest thing but I have to wait till the 20th a month from now! Would my stomach start to feel hard yet? If I'm already having breast tenderness what is expected to happen next?" The nasua I don't think is an indicator but do to my eating habits. Any how I posted in here cuz I have had breast tenderness before like a wk before my period, but my period isn't due till the 15th and my breast hurt so bad last night if I pressed them against somthing, when I moved they would feel sore. I tried to sleep it off but when I woke up I went to cuddle my boyfriend his chest brushed my nipple and it felt sore.... PREGNANT or stressed out?there are no lumps what else can cause breast pain?

Movie Title. Denzel, bodyguard, mexico city girl taken denzel gets her back with great action?

I need the name of the film Denzel Washington works as a bodyguard in Mexico City when the little girl is snatched by corrupt police he uses all his experience from his army knowledge to get the little girl back. Great movie if you get the chance to see it. I forgot the name of the film. Please help.

Not attracted to partner anymore?

I have been with my girl friend for a lot of years (we never got married as it just went that way) for the past few years i have not found her sexually attractive at all and i won't engage in sex or anything to do with that. She loves to cuddle and kiss, but i don't. I love her as a person and we can laugh and get on without a problem. The thing is, i don't want to do things with her, go on holiday, go out, etc. It's ending up where i'm sat in at weekends and not being bothered about doing anything and i think i'm wasting hers and my life. I've often thought about leaving but i can't imagine how much pain that would cause her and i would lose my best friend. After all, it's just down to sex and is it that important? I think it is, but i also think i may be being shallow, I have to do something as i think i am wasting both our lives, anyone been through a similar thing?

Why did this girl say im ugly?

I went on a double date with my friend. Mine was a blind date. I'm 21 she's 19. We went to the movies and out to eat. We cuddled a lot and kissed once and I was rubbing all over her leg. I know she liked it because she's like that and she sleeps around with guys a lot. But I never heard from her after that and she told her friend she regrets doing it because I'm ugly.... ? I've slept with hotter girls than her. What is this about? Also, does being shy make a guy ugly even if he's cute?

What was the final quote for Denzel in the book of eli?

I cant find it anywhere it was like his prayer in the very end. It started when he was lying on the couch at the end when he finished reciting the book.

Making out advice please?!?!?

You will know.. and you will know. You cant really explain.... it will happen in the heat of the moment when its appropriate. its not "can we make out now?" thats no fun and it wouldnt feel right.

Why do people dislike gay and lesbian people?

Because they don't understand it and are scared of the unknown. I am in high school and I am totally fine with gays and lesbians, I'm even fine with same sex marriage (unlike the rest of my family). Most people at my school think the same way you used to, but there also a group of people who are fine with gays and lesbians, because, after all, they are still human, and they do derserve respect, and to be happy like the rest of us.

Question for black ppl?? ?

Hey, i was in sociology class with my friend malcolm, and hes black and im white, and our teacher made us do a assighnment were we named our 5 favorite celebriteis, something about role models in media etc, and i never realized it before but all my 5 favorite were black, anderson silva, denzel washington, lebron james, jonny bones jones, and barrack obama, so he said im a wigger lolz, is that true?? I wear like athletic clothes or jeans if that matters lolz, and i jus like ppl who i feel are awesome lol, so i jus wanna know if everyone thinks im a wigger??? Thanxx

Why Is Denzel Washington So Significant In Black history?

This is the question for my Essay , And i have little background knowledge on the Black Actor , Can Some One Please help me with facts ?

Confused..ladies and gentlemen please help!?

I been talking to this dude for almost 4 months now. He have asked me out before but I haven't gave him an answer and when we are together all we do is stay at his place watch movies , he cooks and we cuddle and have sex. Lately things have be different, I'm not feeling him anymore. And I went off on him when I was drunk last weekend. He said he is tired of making me happy and how i treat him like he is my "jump off" and I'm always shutting him down also how I don't flirt with him when we are together. He is a nice kid but I don't know, I feel like he says something and does something else that's why I'm not feeling him anymore but I don't want to hurt him. So what do you guys think? Does he like me and wants to be with me and how I can make things better? Thank you guys !

Is it possible that I'm pregnant?

You could be pregnant. Headaches can be a sign of pregnancy. You may be bloated, another sign of pregnancy, that would explain the weight gain in your stomach. Early pregnancy symptoms are like really bad PMS symptoms, worse than usual. I had sore breasts, mood swings, and could smell everything a mile away. I also had cramps that felt like mild menstrual cramps. Nausea usually kicks in around 6 weeks, give or take. Every woman experiences different symptoms. Some are lucky and don't have symptoms. The only way to know is to get a pregnancy test. You can get pregnancy tests at Walgreens or walmart and pay for it at the pharmacy. You can even lie and say it's a gag gift for a friends birthday present. Do what you have to do but, you need a test. If you are mature enough to have sex then you should be mature enough to be safe and responsible. If you are pregnant, see a doctor as soon as possible so, that you can have the best start for you and your baby. Good luck to you!

Why would SquareEnix create FFVII Advent Children movie?

Ok so, its a long time since it was out and heck, they even released advent children complete last year of the year before. when it first came out, i was like, cool they are all cgi and very realistic with over the tops moves which is freakin sick. lately, i just had a thought and remembered this final fantasy series but something's bothering me, and im talking about the movie. why would square enix create this movie for? i dont see the sense of the major plot of the movie. its just these three guys that are Sephiroth's other sides which appeared out of no where and when they get a hold of jenova, sephiroth came back and later dies again. whats the significance? i dont see the point as a continuation to the series. things appear out of no where without explanation, no major twist to the series like a new enemy or something, they are just playing around with the story and recycling on what it has. where did those three dudes came from? where cloud gets his new sword? who is this denzel which appeared out of no where and plays no major role? is it just a test subject for square enix on cgi technology for future games? or they just wanna earn some extra income?

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

I ned advice on father's day advice for my daughter's father and siblings??? PLEASE!?

OK, i have a 4 month old daughter but her father has two older children. They do not see their mother at all, but me and him are not together. I am not their step mom. Ever since my daughter was born, I have been getting closer to his children and I am falling for them more and more each day. His oldest daughter who is 11, is constantly texting me, and last weekend she asked me if I would help her get him a father's day gift. I accepted, and she wants to take him to mummy exhibit on Sunday. I am going to get them tickets to take him, but I am not sure if I should buy myself a ticket also. Its not like me and him are enemies, we go out to dinner or a movie every so often and we get along pretty well. Last weekend, we had a sleepover at his house, which consisted of his two oldest kids, my daughter, and me and him..... weird? Yet, we are not together. I am just not sure if it is appropriate for me to buy myself a ticket && spend that day with them. On top of that, the tickets are going to run me about 85 dollars for a half hour show!!!! So I am just like... ehhh.. but please.. I need advice. Also note, that his kids are constantly telling me how happy I make them and that they love me. I am confused as to what I should do!

What are these actress/actor's best movies?

Johnny depp is brill in every thing my fav is edward scissorshand but people think pirates id the best

Metropolitan Museum for Mcqueen Exhibit, how much is the ticket?

General admission is $20, but the secret is that's a 'suggested' price- you can really pay any price, though it's best that you pay what you can really afford to help support all their great programs. The reason for the 'suggested' is that the museum is supported by the city and they want it to be accessible to everyone. Special exhibits are included in the admission price, and you can buy your tickets online to avoid waiting in line if you plan on going on a weekend or during tourist season.

Is cuddling with your friend of the opposite sex okay?

I'm a girl, and I like to cuddle with my male friend. Both of us are single, and we enjoy cuddling with one another...it's purely a physical thing that we both enjoy. Sometimes we would give each other small kisses on each other's cheeks, foreheads, necks, etc. (we never made out before). Is that even right?

Are these signs he only wants sex?

Sounds like to me hes only worried about himself. Any guy is out for sex. But for getting into your pants and then leaving you, I dont know about that. All I know to tell ya is just take one day at a time and see how things go.

LGBT: I like this guy but he's already pissing me off?? What do I do?

If your relationship manages to progress past its current state, you are still going to experience this. Right now is when people should be texting and calling like crazy...it's still that fun, initial part of dating...and he's not doing it. It doesn't mean it doesn't like you, it just means he probably doesn't like texting/calling all the time and probably also likes having time to himself. If this bothers you (and it really seems it does), then you need to move on because your personalities don't jive.

Where should a young traveler to Egypt with an interest in Cleopatra and the Ptolemaic dynasty visit?

I know there probably isn't much to be seen for Cleopatra, but if there are some museums with related exhibits or archaeological sites open to the public in Alexandria I would LOVE to visit them. I am looking for somewhat off the beaten path ancient sites as well. Although I have a keen interest in the Ptolemy, Im very interested in other ancient sites as well. Pretty much any suggestions will be taken in to account. This will be my first big trip and I have been studying egyptian history on my own for years now. I just don't want to miss out on anything spectacular.

Brother keeps getting in my bed, freaking me out?

LMAO AT 13 THEY DONT EVEN UNDERSYAND ANYTHING YOU SHOULD JUST SIT HIM DFOWN AND EXPLAIN TO HIM YOU WILL TELL OR ELSE

What is the principal's blue ribbon?

I got it as an award. It says, " This certificate is awarded to (my name) for exhibiting excellence in character and achievment.

White parents: who would you rather see your daughter come home with?

I'm sure if you put the shoe on the other foot and Dennis drug home a white girl, Dennis's parents would be more than just a bit interested in this relationship. HS is nothing and will get you nowhere in life, so Dennis's parents would be more concerned.

Help!! This guy asked me out but I thought he wasnt into me!?

Why not ask him (or text him) to ask if he hasn't confused you with the girl he took to see the Green Lantern? Give him a chance to explain that, and you'll get a clearer picture if it is you or your pants he is interested in. Don't give in to his needs, though. That would be a big mistake.

I'm very depressed, help?

DANG THATS a lot to read. Honestly only advice i can give you is to just be patient. Time changes things. Just get out there and mingle though. And stop smoking. Nasty habitat. Things change just give it time i know thats hard to hear at this point. But hey a person can always have hope for a brighter tomorow. Just hope and keep trying to change your sitiutation.

Please mark essay on Adversity in Shawshank Redemption.?

I like it, although I can't see all of it! And there is one more thing you wrote: In the film The Shawshank Redemption, the Shashank Redemption is a book, written by King, So not a film makes a character but King :)

Why did this girl say im ugly?

I went on a double date with my friend. Mine was a blind date. I'm 21 she's 19. We went to the movies and out to eat. We cuddled a lot and kissed once and I was rubbing all over her leg. I know she liked it because she's like that and she sleeps around with guys a lot. But I never heard from her after that and she told her friend she regrets doing it because I'm ugly.... ? I've slept with hotter girls than her. What is this about? Also, does being shy make a guy ugly even if he's cute?

Guy friend crossed the line but he says he doesn't remember! Please help?

My guy friend who I have a tad bit of a crush on and vice versa went out with mutual friends the other night and we ended up drinking a lot. A friend dropped 3 of us off at his place, there were two couches and his bed downstairs. We drank some more and they went outside for a cig. while i crashed on one of the couches. When they came downstairs, my friend climbed behind me on the couch to cuddle and our friend went onto the other couch. I woke up to my friend's hands wandering in all sorts of areas but I was pretty gone and wasn't able to move much so I just passed out again. The next morning, I woke up to find him in his bed. When he heard me leaving, he said "hey see ya Wed" which is when we had made plans. Today (two days later) he texted and asked if we kissed. I said no. He said "well i know we didn't have sex" but what else happened?" I asked him how he knew we didn't have sex but couldn't remember anything else and he said "bc I went to bed on the couch and woke up in my bed" which makes no sense. Anywho BIG TWIST...he has a gf and she found out I spent the night and asked if anything happened. He claims not to remember anything so I told him we only cuddled. They are having a "talk" tonight about it I guess and IDK if he truly doesn't remember, if hes feeling guilty or what. What should I do? Should I tell him that his hands were in inappropriate places?

Is there another movie like "Fallen" (1998) Denzel Washington?

In the movie the killer transfers from body to body simply by touch. I remember a white detective not Denzel. Am I mistaken or can anyone help me out here?

Why isn't he opening up?

so I like this guy and he likes me back but and hes always taking my hand when were cuddling but he hasn't kissed me and its our 4th date already, my mom thinks hes just private, and I know he hasn't been scarred in passed relationships so what wrong? and how can I change it?

Was it worth taking the risk?

Ok so this is really tough, I've been thinking over this and I'm not a relationship expert but I cam help(: I think you did the right thing, micheal acted like a gentleman and made you feel special. Jeremy hadnt gone very far in your relationship and it seems like micheal may be the better choice. But think about this, do you still have feelings for Jeremy? Do you think you would have ever taken it a next step? But be careful, choose what your heart tells you. It will tell you the right answer one way or another. do not try to have feelings for both of them at once! It will just turn really bad. I hope I helped!

Is 22 Really A Late Age For Acting Career And Have No Experiance?

Nope there is no age limit on acting, there are loads of actors and actress who didn't get a single job until they were in their thirties, forty's and sixties some in their nineties. If it's what you want to do then you'll do it. However, it's hard and it only becomes harder if you doubt yourself, if you want to do it then do it. Don't question it.

Sick puppies; They act drunk, dizzy, sort of confused, but not lethargic, accept food but not water?

The need to drink water. Water is extremely inportant. They could just be dehydrated. If your really unsure just call your vet and tell them all the symptoms and they will tell you what to do. It won't cost any money to call them.

Do you think I really loved my ex boyfriend?

I think the best indicator of love is to ask yourself if you would want to be with him and only him for the rest of your life

Do bunnies like to be kissed?

Depends on the rabbit I would think. For example, some dogs like to have lots of attention and some don't.

What is your fave Denzel Washington movie?

that guy who wrote that he is in the matrix is so dumb, it was laurence fishburne. and my favorite denzel flick is philadelphia, few movies can actually make me cry, this is one of em

I live with my brother and he acts like he is my father. How do I make him realize that I am not 5 year old?

I think he's just trying to protect you. Maybe, you should talk to him and try to mellow him out a bit. Tell him how your feeling, and maybe he'll lay off. But for now, don't think of it as unfair. Be glad you have someone looking out for you :)

Hey cat owners, have you heard about this yet?

No, I hadn't heard about this. Thank you for the heads up! We need more people like you to spread the word so we can keep our animals well and safe. How sweet of you.

What to do when you don't feel 'valued' in a marraige?

The " What to do " varies with circumstances surrounding you. Man/ woman can be emotionally abused when living far from their parents. The one having a superior income may feel placed in a position to abuse the other party. No matter the reasons to be abusive, this behavior may stem from a lack of concern or love for you. I suggest that you do not give up your schooling as this may the only pillar you will have in the years ahead. It is best to be alone than having a weak link as partner. I am afraid that you will never do enough to please him. Usually, I do not advise anyone to get a divorce but, I strongly counsel you to open your eyes and let no man drive you in a ditch in the name of love or a marriage standing on no legs. I know of many women who after a divorce went back to you and become independent through their new career. The husband they had was pure hindrance in their life. Be strong and do the right thing for yourself.

Help me remember this movie?

In this movie it was about this group of people robbing a bank. I think it was either 3-4 people. One was a woman. I think they were Russian? And when they got in the bank they told the people to take their clothes off and put on some weird clothes that they were wearing. I think Denzel Washington was in it...Not sure... thanks

How can I keep from getting an erection when spending time with my girlfriend?

I'm 16 and just had my girlfriend over for dinner about 8 hours ago. We were watching a movie when my parents went to sleep and she started to cuddle with me. And when she started rubbing my chest I almost lost it. We're not sexual, and both have abstinence pledges, but I'm still a guy with those urges. She laid her head on my lap and felt the "zipper bump" that happens when you sit while wearing jeans, and she thought it was my penis. So she sat up quickly and seemed freaked out. I explained that it was just the zipper, but I'm scared of what would have happened if she actually felt my *****. Please help. "and if your a girl, would you be creeped out, or interested?"

In the book of Eli was denzel Washington blind the whole time?

Yes, were you completely thrown off too. It was a great twist to the movie. And an excellent ending. And I guess after you thought about it it made sense. Good movie.

What was your first internet experience like?

lol i love random questions like this......mine was in middle school, we learned computers in 5th grade but never had the internet until middle school. I used "Excite" to see what my luck/horoscope was for that day, and I still do today!! lol

Monday, July 18, 2011

My dog may have kennel cough, what is safe to use as treatment if I merely suspect she does?

I've used Robitussin (childrens liquid) with success in shelter dogs that come with kennel cough, however if a temperature comes on, you will need an antibiotic which you can only obtain through a veterinarian.

What Names Sound Better?

I would take out the celebrity influence in each name (Jet, Jaycee, Denzel, and Harlow). But that's just me.

Is it right for Christians to be angry all the time?

The hell and brimstone Christians to me always seem very angry and critical all the time, I know one particular Christian lady who is close to the Lord, but she is terrifying in her temprament. Other people who I think are just as intimidating are speakers like Jacob Prasch, but is it right to exhibit anger all the time?

How can I get my parents to see that social interaction is irrational, and I should be left alone?

Another ungrateful, miserable weirdo teenager, No wonder you don'r get on with your parents, count yourself lucky I am not your mom and dad, because I would kick you up the ***

What's the name of this movie?

Older movie based on an even older story.either Denzel Washington or Samuel L Jackson played the father.His daughter is on the way to or from the store,two white men pick her up & kill her. In the end he shoots the murderer(s) of his daughter in the court house.

How can I get my parents to see that social interaction and fun are irrational ? I have other things to do?

Look you have to understand that if you truly collected any kind of data about people through observation and experience you would understand that human beings are social animals. We need interation in order to maintain sanity, even if you find it irrational. Yes many things that human beings commit to are irrational, such as giving into urges and making decisions based off of our emotions more commonly compared to reason. Ironically being the only rational thinking creatures in existence we tend to lean more towards our irrational aspects. We shouldn't live life for the sake of "living life" because there is no true definition for what "living life" is, but rather for personal growth. From how you structured your writting and what you write about you claim to be an intellectual of some sort, but yet you fail to grasp the most important aspects that the greatest intellectuals tend to value most above reason and logic, and that my friend is what society has deprived them of from a young age,personal satisfaction obtained from others.

Do you think i ever cross his mind...we haven't had sex since early early december!?!?!?

i thought we really hit it off in every way. started talking. eventually hooked up..had sex 3 times in one night the first time. we probably had sex about 6 times total. we'd spoon and cuddle all night afterwards. he told me how attracted he is to me, and didn't pressure me to have sex. but then he stopped contacting me out of the blue, after i met all his friends and whatnot. i was confused..turns out he was seeing someone else. got himself a girlfriend :/ i called him back in february just to check if he was alive but the phone convo was a little weird. haven't heard from him since then..we had such a connection though, met totally randomly. ugh. do you think i ever cross his mind or not?? we are friends on facebook as well.

Need Advice. Kind of Long Post...?

I like all the deets :) mkay, so shelby..i think she sees that someone is interested in u and now she wants u jzt cuhz someone else wants u. Its like a toddler who doesnt want the toy until someone else starts playing with it. Dnt get back with shelby, its going to go no where. U already noe that u want kids and she doesnt so why bother? And windy..i think shes confuzed abt what exactly she wants. I think she enjoys spending time with u. I dnt noe why she was txtn her ex, frm what u say hes no good. Fight for her. I think shes prone to gettin hurt and she needs someone like u to protect her

Will he want to do it?

you both sound kind of timid....just go with it, if you want to get steamy do it because you're dating. remember that. you both like each other and are obviously attracted to one another, so what's keeping you from that? taking the initiative shows confidence, and guys dig confidence.

Name of this movie - Actor Denzel Washington?

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What does it mean when you cuddle-ish with your guy bestfriend?

so, my best girlfriend and my best guyfriend and I hung out. We dropped her home and he was going to drive me home. It was 11pm at night, but I wanted to stay out later with him so we hung out at the park near my house. We were hiding in the slides to block the wind and he just started to lean on my legs and waist. He kinda leans on my sometimes+give each other piggyback rides and I don't care because I want to be more than just friends with him.. I like him! Then a bunch of people came to the park and we wanted privacy and stufff, so we went to the back seat of his car. I was just siting there alone and trynna rest cause it was 12am & he comes leaning on my leg and waist again. I mean, I playfully pushed him off not to make it seem like I like it, even though I did. Then I was kinda tired and I said his seat covers were sorta hard & uncomfortable. So, he sorta told me to lean on him. I leaned on his shoulders, but it was kinda bony so it was uncomfortable and I got off. He said it made him warm and wanted me back & I was it was uncomfortable. Then he pulled me back and put me against his chest and his arms across my body. His chin was right on top of my head, while he gamed on his itouch. He stopped at times and we talked for awhile.. (: It felt good and we just stayed like that for 2 hours. How do I know if this means anything more than just friends ?

Should I take my dog with me?

I would take him with you, if they allow pets, cause it's only right if he loves you now for being the owner.

Is it true that white people prefer light skin blacks?

I don't prefer or like people based on their skin color. I would choose people to be my friends because of who was nicer. I'd like to have Will Smith & Denzel Washington as my friends.!

Did God design a family to be led by a husband and wife, or by a single parent with or without a "partner"?

Currently, almost 60 percent of black children, 32 percent of Hispanic children and 21 percent of white children live in single-parent homes. According to the CDC, DoJ, DHHS and the Bureau of the Census, children who live apart from their fathers account for 63 percent of teen suicides, 70 percent of juveniles in state-operated institutions, 71 percent of high-school dropouts, 75 percent of children in chemical-abuse centers, 80 percent of rapists, 85 percent of youths in prison, 85 percent of children who exhibit behavioral disorders, and 90 percent of homeless and runaway children.

Should I keep Wating For Her?

Ok so i am 15 and have been waiting for this girl for 3 months while she has been dating this other guy so me having to wait has made me want to give up. but at the same time just about 3 days ago we kissed and cuddled while i stayed the night at her house just before that all happened i asked if she still liked me and she said yes and i said ive been waiting for a long 3 months and i am on the edge of giving up but her reply was no please don't give up i still like you. She also says she loves the idea of being with me and when we are with echother we both feel like were like living a dream when shes not with me she gets frustrated and upset easy so do i when were with echother we are both always happy and another thing we stayed up till 4 in the morning the night before her quince talking about being together with echother and how it would be and how she wants to be with me but for some reason she cant leave her boyfriend even after all of this has happened she also had a hard time deciding between me and him at the beginning of all this as they were about 3 weeks into there relationship. So should i keep waiting? Or Should i move on? i really like her and want her i am almost in love with her please help ive been wondering for months what i should do thank you.

How do you choose the right dog breed for a person?

all of the members in my family want different dogs,my dad wants a big guard dog,I want a small dog I can cuddle with like a yorkie,my sister wants a dog like a lab and my mom is iffy on the idea of getiin a dog but she would want a dog like a chihuaha could anyone help?

How much to charge exhibitors at my hair and beauty show?

Putting together a hair and beauty show in 2012. How much do I charge vendors to exhibit? Do I go by space or charge a flat fee?

Casey Anthony Mistrial?

You must have some kind of super tv to know what the jurors are talking about. Yes they are talking, but you can't hear what they are saying, Are they talking about the case? Maybe, but these people have been together almost a month and have probably started to form some friendships so they could just as likely be talking about what they want to eat for dinner.

Why do my parents see a need for me to interact socially and have fun?? How can I convince them it is a waste?

Well, if that's the way you want to be, so be it. I'm sure you'll do some great things for this world. But, I'd you ever get tired of doing what your doing, regular life is pretty exciting :)

Trouble with a girl and my best friend.?

I met this girl about a year ago now. We became extremely good friends and I liked her for a long time. My friend also began to like her. My friend and I are the same person basically. We are shy and not good with people. Socially awkward one might say. Anyways we both confronted her one night that we like her. And to our surprise she actually had crushes on both of us. So at this point she wouldnt allow anything to happen because it wouldnt be right to the other person. I was really hurt because I liked her so much. I eventually confronted my friend and told him how I felt and he said he felt the same way and that he wouldnt be comfortable with me dating her. So time went on. I tried to hold her hand and cuddle and stuff and she said no because it wouldnt be right. So I gave up with that. Later on I she finially let me hold her hand. I then decided that I like her enough that I should show it. Thats not generally me. Like I said. I'm shy so I wanted to show I really like her. So I invited her over to tell her face to face that I think shes pretty and exactly how I felt. And she said she could see her dating me the most because we talk the most and stuff. Anyway. I thought thought my friend wasnt as intirtested in her anymore. I eneded up cuddling with her and later making out. SHe has never had a boyfriend so I thought it was really cool that I was the first person she made out with. I asked her out and she said she would have to think about it. Anyyways. Just yesterday. My friend and my other friend (the one who likes her) had us get together because he knew both sides of the story. The story being that of we have both made out with her. This killed me. I didn't think or didnt want to know that my friend made pulled moves on the girl I liked. It hurt me more that this happened like months ago and several times. So I find out I was not the first person she made out with. And also I held back because she said it wouldnt be right to the ohter person. And here I find out she was just doing that will my friend. I just don't know what to think or do. I am mad at her because she didnt tell me that she was doing things with my friend and she only felt bad about it once we actually found out about it. It didnt seem to bother her at all before. I'm sorry if this is too long and a mess. I am just typing what I'm thinking and not looking back at what I'm writing. But I basically havnt talked to her for two days now. SHe wasnt dating any of us so it's not like she was wrong doing. So maybe I shouldnt be mad. But still. This changes the exerpince we had together and also I don;t know if I can be friends with her anymore. First because of this situation and because we vertainly cant go out at this point and I don't know if I can handle being friends with someone I like a lot. I've been dealing with it for a long time now and its hard. Basically what I want to know is should i talk to her? I've just been ignoring her. We talked a little right after I found out. I'm just so mad and I like being her friend so much. She is my best "girl" friend and I am her best guy friend. I don't want that to be ruined but maybe it has too. I just dont know. If you trooped through this thank you for listening.

If a guy was molested by his mother will he show certain types of behaviour?

If a man was molested by his mother would he exhibit the same behavior of a man that was molested by his father?

Animals with cephalization also exhibit what other characteristic?

If memory serves, you're probably looking for bilateral symmetry. Cephalization is the characteristic of having a head and so there is a high concentration of the nervous system and sensory organs on one end of the animal. This differs from things like jellyfish that don't have heads and are radially symmetrical.

Am I a paranoid schizophrenic?

This is the wrong place to ask this question. This is Yahoo Answers--we are not professionals and we cannot assess you. You need to be evaluated by a psychiatrist.

Neeeeed helllllp!!!!!!?

Ok so im making a moivie i have all the camera men and producers and everything and i ask sum actors like jake gyllenhaal and will smith and denzel and i need a movie ide help!!!

Too picky? 1st date- He didn't open the door for me ... now I DO NOT want a 2nd date?

All a first date is a tryout for a second date. it seems to me that you think it is not worth going on a second date. You two just did not click on the date so you really don't want to go out with him again. If you really liked this guy you would not be asking these questions.

Art help! asap! please help?

Tried to answer but spent almost 10 minutes thoroughly writing out answers before yahoo promptly deleted them all and told me there was an "error" when i tried to submit. Sorry buddy, might want to complain to yahoo.

Would you say that me and this girl are now gf and bf ?

Well it like this I I met her in feb and we started seeing each other in April 2 and half months a go I been shopping with her holded her hand been to the movies been to a DVD rental store and I've got my arm round her waist and she leaning her head on my chest and cuddling up to each other watching tv. I asked her 2 weeks a go to be my gf she said "I like the way we am now" but I think we are gf and bf by what we are doing plus it's like I had a picture taken with my mom on a day out and I was showing the girl I'm seeing the pics from the day out on my phone and when I come to the picture with my mom straight away she said "who's that" I said my mom she said "oh that's alright then" and smiled lol what would you say about us now

Would an Aquarius lady who likes me exhibit this behavior?

She completely refuses to talk to me now that she knows how I feel, but she started leaving clues all over the place. I have some odd sayings that are my own. She will post them in a love context or mimic me when she talks to other people. She seems to answer my questions by proxy by inserting the answer into a response to someone else that has my name or nickname. It's obvious because the response part is always unnecessary or unrelated to the other persons question. She will post things like You know I love you. I feel it in my bones that she wants me and cares for me. I just know it, but I can't get her to talk to me. I found out she was in a relationship when I told her how I felt. So it makes sense that she wouldn't want to engage in this kind of convo. It's one of those relationships where they get along well and make good friends, but I don't think they are really in love. I don't want to cause problems for er relationship, but I love her. I try to forget her, but I just can't. There are countless clues that she is in love with me, but I can't do anything about it. I'm a Gemini guy by the way. Thx!

Would an Aquarius lady who likes me exhibit this behavior?

She completely refuses to talk to me now that she knows how I feel, but she started leaving clues all over the place. I have some odd sayings that are my own. She will post them in a love context or mimic me when she talks to other people. She seems to answer my questions by proxy by inserting the answer into a response to someone else that has my name or nickname. It's obvious because the response part is always unnecessary or unrelated to the other persons question. She will post things like You know I love you. I feel it in my bones that she wants me and cares for me. I just know it, but I can't get her to talk to me. I found out she was in a relationship when I told her how I felt. So it makes sense that she wouldn't want to engage in this kind of convo. It's one of those relationships where they get along well and make good friends, but I don't think they are really in love. I don't want to cause problems for er relationship, but I love her. I try to forget her, but I just can't. There are countless clues that she is in love with me, but I can't do anything about it. I'm a Gemini guy by the way. Thx!

How can any human have the courage to kill another?

_ believe this one of my favorite questons ever, reason being is I've always wondered what makes people snap like that also, but as you see in the past it was believed to be witchcraft,then posession of body and soul, then it was family fault, no its got a name, bi polarism, wait ten mor years then it will be called somthing else, but I believe that some of us arw just bad in nature you know and whatever causes that snap we will never truly know till it happens but we are all born with a instink to protect just like we are alsoborn with a killer instint just like I believe that there some people without souls that cause the damage of ceareal killers because you really and truly can't have a soul to comit that kind of act you know, anyway good queston

Advice in making out please?!?!?!?

Ok well when you guys are alone you'll feel when the right time is. My first time making out was when I was cuddling with my bf and we started kissing amd then we made out. He should definitely be ready if he touches you in places then he is ready.You just have to take a risk at it and from my experience he is actually ready he's just waiting for you. Hope this helps

Which are your top 7 actors?

Daniel Craig, Daniel Craig, Daniel Craig, Daniel Craig, Daniel Craig, Daniel Craig, and Daniel Craig

Are you a fan of zendaya and bella's friendship?

maybe they're taking it too far, like they "cuddle" and hug too much..(if you know what I'm saying). Are they hiding something, or are they just good friends?

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Are U As Heartbroken As I Am?

My wonderful sweet guinea pig, Mancow, died yesterday June 26. I am so heartbroken. What a sweet baby he was & such a great personality! I will miss his little sounds & his special way he loved to cuddle with me. I buried him in my back yard next to his friend Harriette. I am having a new fountain put in behind his resting place so I can sit back there & have peaceful time remembering his special little place in this Cosmos. I have always loved animals & still have my 2 cats & 4 dogs but this little black guinea pig had my heart! Just wanted to share this with my Y/A family!

He gets really, really nervous with physical intimacy. What should I do to help?

Don't push him to do anything, make sure the two of you are completely comfortable around each other. Try to make him feel at ease. Everything should then begin to come naturally :)

Help I 'm feeling like I am being suffocated?

I recently came to new york to live but had to go back to london. I'm a gentle white girl and like my white ways but I find too many black people make my life a misery, their cruel and rude and they all seem to exhibit bad breath. thing i moved from london because it is full of black people to new york but have found all people in new york to be full of black folk. I want to not hate black people but can't how do I cope with this?

How do you say pronounce the Nation of Islam greeting?

Just remember, followers of the 'nation' are NOT muslims....they have many similar customs, but thier beleifs are not in line with Islam....Asalam alaikum wa rahmahtuallah wa barakahtuh

Why does my GF like my fat (10 points)?

This obviously likes you for your personality, that is why her previous relationships didn't last. Anyway, I just think she thinks your a cuddly person and you make her warm.. My boyfriend is the same, he's warm and i just love hugging him. Don't worry about you being her first big boyfriend. Just be lucky to have her and treat her well (I'm sure you do). Lol.. Her liking you because of your fat. It's cool (:

What autistic characteristics are featured in black balloon?

so i've watched a bit of black balloon and i'm curious as to what typical psychological symptoms charlie exhibits of autism; are there specific traits?

How many rasboras could i keep with....?

1 male betta in a 20 gallon- a 20 gallon is a very big tank if you plan to have small fish like rasboras. if thats all your having I say maybe even up to 20. with the 5 loaches i say 10-15.

Should you ever have to "deal" with bad behavior?

WOW! first of all, im sorry that you are having to go through all of this. after reading your post, i can actually relate to several of the things you brought up. in my opinion, you should never have to "deal" with something like that just because the person exhibiting that kind of behavior is a family member. that does not give them the right to be abusive whether it's emotional or physical. it sounds like your father has a lot of issues that he has never dealt with and isn't happy with himself and his life. and as a result, he's unfortunately treating you and your mother like crap. and you clearly are aware of it and do not want to stand for it. nor should you. have you ever tried to have a calm and civil conversation with your dad, telling him how you feel about everything? he doesnt sound like he's the easiest person to talk to but that may at least be a start to making things better. and if there really is no chance of being better, than at least maybe you can feel ok about how YOU are handling things for you and your life. if you think about it....life is extremely short and your happiness is truly important. if you are not happy or at least not happy where you are living, and there is no getting through to your dad, you should leave. for your own good and happiness. but not on a bad note and not before at least trying to work things out. but regarless of who a person is to you, you should never just have to put up with their inappropriate behavior. because that is a cop out. that would just mean that everyone could walk around acting however they want and just tell everyone around them to deal with them being an asshole. and thats just ridiculous. i hope this helps and i truly hope things get better with your dad.

How can I get my parents to see that dating is irrational, and I should be left alone? ?

man you sound like a genius with overprotective parents that worry too much. take the easy way out and tell them your a late bloomer or something like that

Where can I get a free copy of that old movie... 'FALLEN' with Denzel Washington?

movie starts off with serial killer being gassed but his soul travels around throughout the show killing others

4 yr old exhibiting sexual behavior?

My 4 yr old son seems to be exhibiting sexual behavior that I feel is inappropriate. I know masturbation in children of this age is normal as they are "exploring" themselves but I have caught my 7 yr old female cousin trying to touch his private area. Also, my husbands niece is a year younger thann my son and seems to always want to "play" under the covers and try to make my son lay on her. Today, my brother in law caught the kids in my sons room and my son had his pants down, he tried to pull them up when he saw his uncle so he obviously knew this was wrong. I'd also like to add that my son has recently started wetting the bed very frequently and just seems to want to focus on sexual behavior that may or may not be normal but I am very uncomfortable with it. My son also seems to act sexually inappropriate toward my husband (ex: he tries to sit on his foot and rub himsellf against my husbands foot ) I am a stay at home mom but am not sure if my son may have possibly been abused. Is he too young for therapy?

My friendship breakdown is hurting me much more than I let on to others.?

It's possible something really bad happened in her life and it made her upset and it caused her to distance herself from you and others. This same thing could have also made her more easily upset by somethings then she normally would be. I know I get that way when I have a lot of family drama. Problems in her life also could make her more jealous of you. I have a friend whose like this and it's usually because of problems in his life rather then things I've done. If you want to stay friends talk to her about it and suggest she see counseling if it could help the situation. If it's healthier for you that the friendship ends though slowly distance yourself from her. She also could be the kind of girl who gets into a lot of silly girl drama and that's tough on a friendship. It might be hard but sometimes distancing yourself could be what's best for you. Hope this helps :)

Do you think I really loved him?

I'm in exactly the same situation. I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years as well. I don't know if I was in love with him but I definitely loved him. We were together since we were 14 so we grew apart.

How do I tell a guy I dont want to continue being with him when he goes back to college?

He and I started talking about a month ago, and we talk every day pretty much. We have hung out and cuddled and kissed but we aren't anything official, and I want it to stay that way. He is three years older than me and when I go back to high school in the fall he'll be going back to college. I really don't think its a good idea for us to get serious, and I don't want it to continue when he goes back to college because I want him to enjoy the whole college experience without all the added drama (he had a terrible first year), and I want to enjoy my junior year without having to worry about a boyfriend. I have told him this already (before we ever hung out) but he just keeps saying "well what if I don't want to talk to any other girls in college?" and "Lets wait until the end of the summer and see if you feel the same way"...I know I will and I don't want him to get the wrong idea. How should I address this with him again without making him feel bad or making him feel insulted? because I really do like him I just want to be free throughout high school...working hard in school is stressful enough without the added drama of a long distance relationship

Is there a Movie with a ton of Major Action/Comedy celebs?

Like an Action or Comedy that has Matt Damon, Mark Walhberg, Bruce Willis, Denzel Washington, Russel Crowe, Tom Cruise etc whatever. Is there a movie that has alot of not exactly those people in it, but Celebs that most Teenagers that watch action/comedy's would know, and I'm talking about people that are usaully main characters and their films. Does anyone know? (By a ton I mean at least 5)

Have you seen Remember the Titans?

If you have, what are some scenes where Coach Boone (Denzel Washington) show true leadership skills?

What should I do???? Please help!?

It sounds like a summer fling. If he's making out with you and kissing you and all that on a regular basis and doesn't want a relationship, he's just trying to get some pussy. If I were you, I'd just end it. Nothing good will come out of continuing it.

What do you think of this phenomena among women and their preferences?

Actally, a lot of people think Steven Tyler is ugly.I, however, LOVE LOVE LOVE him. Why, you ask? Not because of the fact that he's white, but because his mouth, his eyes, his hair, his style, his voice, his body etc. It has nothin to do with race.

Would it be great to see these actors in in a film together?

I always remember seeing "To Sir with Love" and "Guess who is coming for dinner" staring Sydney Poitier when I was teenager. May be, Sydney Poitier with Morgan Freeman will be ideal..

Sci-fi story help, how would be able to look back in time?

Well, you'd need some very intense gravitational effects, or other forces - maybe the machine alters the Strong and/or Weak force to mimic gravity - instead of only influencing the length of a proton, maybe the machine alters these forces to be infinite - and, with the infinite-acting force, maybe you can't see *our* past, but another *universe's* past - one that's nearly identical to ours, but has some slight differences here & there...

Sick puppies; They act drunk, dizzy, sort of confused, but not lethargic, accept food but not water?

The need to drink water. Water is extremely inportant. They could just be dehydrated. If your really unsure just call your vet and tell them all the symptoms and they will tell you what to do. It won't cost any money to call them.

Does my roommate/ex want me to still sleep in his bed?

Ho, humm...games, games, games. We the forum speakers, can't help herein...but ask this - are you prepared to do this forever?

Phillip from Survivor crazy?

At first I thought Phillip was trying to outdo Coach for being the biggest wack job ever on Survivor but he takes it to a whole new level. If this guy is not mentally ill he is hands down a better actor than Denzel, Hanks etc. Who in thier right mind plays the race card with a former NFL player? LMFAO! I know several (very famous) NFL players and they tend not to see color just who stops them from getting hit when they pass the ball. This guy is like a homeless man without his meds. Maybe that's why he's comfy living in a makeshift "tent" on a beach?

Was i used or not???????????????????????????…

i thought we really hit it off in every way. started talking. eventually hooked up..had sex 3 times in one night the first time. we probably had sex about 6 times total. we'd spoon and cuddle all night afterwards. he told me how attracted he is to me, and didn't pressure me to have sex. but then he stopped contacting me out of the blue, after i met all his friends and whatnot. i was confused..turns out he was seeing someone else. got himself a girlfriend :/ i called him back in february just to check if he was alive but the phone convo was a little weird. haven't heard from him since then..we had such a connection though, met totally randomly. ugh. do you think i ever cross his mind or not?? we are friends on facebook as well.

Ok well i had a miscarriage... please read my story for those who wish to know the symptoms of miscarriage?

amy i have suffered miscarriages in the past.....the first when i was 19 ,the result of a car crash [the trauma induced the miscarriage at 6wks]......the second last year , i was pregnant with twins , lost the first at 6wks 2 days the second at 11wks 1day.......each miscarriage ended like this .....i felt long sharp stomach pains , began to spot and /or bleed heavily , nausea , and finally i was an emotional wreck...........most of the symptoms you list CAN just be regular pregnancy symptoms.....and i know from my gp [and the fact i still had nausea , cramps on and off ,and pregnancy symptoms a month post miscarriage]that symptoms can linger for upto 12weeks following..........i knew i was pregnant [with the twins] 2 weeks after concieving , as my symptoms were severe and my two kids caused me little to no symptoms......and honestly i am british and never heard this nonsense about us being different to the americans ??? i may live in australia now but am pretty sure pregnancy is the same world wide.......i am sorry for your loss .....but remember some of those syptoms may not have been the miscarriage itself but perhaps the hormonal imbalance we all dance with in pregnancy

Why is it that all humans are classified Homo-sapien, and its wrong to call someone a Homo?

homosexual and homo sapein are two very different things and when put into context calling someone a homo is an insult. homo sapien is a term used by biologists and geneticists and would never refer to someone as a homo without hte sapien because then you could be refering to anything close to a primate.

Do you think i ever cross his mind...we haven't had sex since early early december!?!?!?

i thought we really hit it off in every way. started talking. eventually hooked up..had sex 3 times in one night the first time. we probably had sex about 6 times total. we'd spoon and cuddle all night afterwards. he told me how attracted he is to me, and didn't pressure me to have sex. but then he stopped contacting me out of the blue, after i met all his friends and whatnot. i was confused..turns out he was seeing someone else. got himself a girlfriend :/ i called him back in february just to check if he was alive but the phone convo was a little weird. haven't heard from him since then..we had such a connection though, met totally randomly. ugh. do you think i ever cross his mind or not?? we are friends on facebook as well.

To those of you who blame the woman for rape, explain the basis for sodomy, child sexual abuse & pedophilia.?

They don't explain. They just stay quiet. Oh and they bring up attractive female pedophiles that guys cheer on anyway. When women do talk about female pedophiles, it's because the women are "jealous". Yeah, when it comes to child rape, guys are quiet. Maybe they don't like talking about it or something.

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Why does my husband find me more attractive (10 points)?

my husband and i are 27 have been married for 2 years. last year i was thin and went to the gym a few times a week and my husband and i had a good sex life and cuddled often. now i got a promotion at my job and i have been working more, so i guess i havent been able to work out and started eating more and i guess "let myself go" so i have gained some weight in the past year. so now im chubby. you would think he would be less attracted to me but he seems more into me and its like he cant keep his hands off of me. all he wants to do is cuddle and we have sex even more than we did when i was thin when we hug and kiss he likes to grab onto my rolls or love handles. like yesterday when he got back from work (he is a sports writer btw) we hugged and kissed and he put his arms around me and started squeezing and grabbing my fat. at first i felt really uncomfortable with him touching me, but after awile i was ok with it. i do have bigger breasts and a bigger butt now, so maybe thats why he is more attracted to me. i would get it is was chubby before and lost weight and then was more attracted to me, but i dont get it with this scenario. i know im his wife and he will always love me but you can love something and not be attracted to it like after my older sister had her baby she had gained 40 pounds because of her pregnancy and she told me that recently her husband could not even look at her. if it helps answer the question he is a big guy and has been oveweight since the day i met him

Should I let my mom have her dog?

it doesn't sound to me like she is going to hurt or neglect or damage this dog, it just sounds like she may not know how to train it. i had no idea what i was doing when i got 2 dogs but i took them to some obedience classes and they are fine, so maybe you can suggest that to her if your worried. when it comes right down to it though she can have a dog if she wants and you really don't have any say so in the matter

Did God design a family to be led by a husband and wife, or by a single parent with or without a "partner"?

Currently, almost 60 percent of black children, 32 percent of Hispanic children and 21 percent of white children live in single-parent homes. According to the CDC, DoJ, DHHS and the Bureau of the Census, children who live apart from their fathers account for 63 percent of teen suicides, 70 percent of juveniles in state-operated institutions, 71 percent of high-school dropouts, 75 percent of children in chemical-abuse centers, 80 percent of rapists, 85 percent of youths in prison, 85 percent of children who exhibit behavioral disorders, and 90 percent of homeless and runaway children.

Can you please tell me what does?

it's an expression. it means like, they won something just a LITTLE BIT before someone else. like as if it were because of their nose they won. lol. it just means they won something a little bit before the other person.

Is Denzel Washington a republican?

Why would you be pissed? Denzel Washington doesn't need to explain his political beliefs to anybody. He's still a great actor no matter what. Nobody is perfect. :-)

What all is involved when a guy and a girl are cuddling?

When people cuddle, what all is involved? Are they lying on a bed or just sitting next to each other on a couch?

Why are scorpios so freakin sensitive?

Because water signs are the most sensitive signs in the zodiac and Scorpio is a water sign. And they take everything seriously. They're easily insulted even when no one is insulting them. They're often too cautious and suspicious of everyone's motives.

When girls say a guy is creepy do they just mean hes ugly?

seems like to me its almost impossible for a guy to be creepy if hes considered hot and popular, no matter how he acts or what kind of immature behavior he exhibits.

Considering Leaving Marraige?

I have been with my husband for 5 years, married 1. He is a heavy pot smoker, and I started almost two years ago after a car accident to try and relieve pain, and because I felt we would get along better (he also grows). He has also has a big porn addiction. I caught him right before he proposed to me on a trashy dating website telling a woman how beautiful she was trying to get pictures and I almost left him over it....Last month he had porn all over my house and I found out he was masturbating in a public place (Gym Sauna). Hell froze over. He was being lazy, not helping with the chores, never saves his money, and he is not very educated, we have never really had personal conversations and now I feel stupid. We are good friends but I am starting to wonder if he should have only stayed as a friend. We have sports in common and when we are doing something physical we are great, but when we go out to dinner or do something just the two of us he talks about construction and how he hates mexicans. I am in a business field, and I cannot talk to him about my job because he doesnt understand it and he doesn't really hold much value in it. I am a good looking woman, and I constantly have men wanting to sweep me away but I dont want to hurt my husbands feelings or feel like I failed. I have been silent for so long with my husband because of his temper and I just try to keep a smile on my face and suck it up, but I dont think I can continue. This last month I finally said something and we have been at odds ever since. I want someone who I can share a mental relationship with. I want to feel like I can talk to them about kids, money and life without feeling like I have to guide them every step of the way. I want to feel like I am taken care of rather than being the care taker. My husband has done a 180 recently with helping out and has been doing chores, cuddling with me, and trying to spend time, but I cannot seem to get the mental connection of feeling close to him. I am no longer smoking because of my jobs demands and I dont think it was really helping. I am lost and I need help. I want to go to a marriage counselor but I know when we do go he will complain about the money and having to take time off of work.

Do you like these names? why/why not? maybe combine them?

Name your son Bentley, which even sounds like a cool name. Denzel? is your son black? Not a white kid name. Rio? Is he spanish? Kyren? Are you expecting him to turn gay?

Guys where is your Mars and who is your role model?

My mars is in Gemini and not Al Pacino and Jim Morrison are certainly not my role models =/=/. I don't have one to be honest but well accomplished people in politics are more likely to be than actors or singers. I don't take them too seriously if I am honest.

What was he trying to do ?

A couple days ago my date and I went to the movies and we ended up being the only two in that particular theater. We started cuddling somewhat and he was telling me how hot I was and how he couldn't focus on the movie and he kept rubbing my legs and telling me how soft and smooth my skin was. I noticed that during the movie he kept taking glances at my legs and I looked out of the corner of my eye and I saw him pull his shirt over the top of his pants and he was crossing his legs. Was he trying to hide an erection ? Lol no rude answers please, Thanks :)

How Do I Handle 11-Month Old Chihuahua Aggression?

I have been very consistent in training my chihuahua, who is now currently 11 months old and 9 lbs. He has been with me since 12-weeks and was neutered as a young puppy as he had started to exhibit certain behaviours (humping objects, etc) that led it to be advised. He is crate trained, potty trained, social and friendly in the dog park, but has exhibited aggressive behaviours from time to time. He is not allowed on the furniture, is made to wait for humans to enter doors first, and must sit or do other tricks to be rewarded or served his food. However, his aggression has been most seen around food, guarding his crate, guarding me, or when people pet him. Before, he would always want attention from others, but now he will be comfortable receiving a pet but then suddenly turns and snaps, warding off whoever is petting him. My boyfriend, who lives with us, is the most frequent victim. This past weekend, after getting picked up from the train station, I was sitting with my mother and the dog in the back seat of the car. She was petting and he suddenly tensed up and tried to bite her. Prior, he had always been very calm and well behaved in the car. On another occasion, while sitting on my boyfriend's lap in the car, my boyfriend was holding him and moved his hands slightly and the dog began to growl. I'd don't know if this is fear based or territorial. But the behaviour is very fickle and changes quickly. He will be accepting one minute, then suddenly tense and upset. He has been examined recently with a good bill of health. This behaviour is never exhibited towards me. After he lashes out, he instantly gets embarrassed, will lower his head in submission, and know that he has done something wrong. But he will still possibly lash out if anyone is in his space. I'm worried as this behaviour is new, as in the past few weeks, and I want to nip it in the bud. In regards to his aggression in the crate, I've had my boyfriend casually drop treats into the crate when the dog is resting inside, and speaking kindly to him. This is slowly improving and he is more accepting of people's presence near his crate. However, the other moments when he snaps are concerning me. If anyone has any advice-- please let me know. I have also been seeing a behaviorist to assist, but wanted to gather additional feedback.

Need help soon to be in long distance relationship(10 points for best answer)?

Your parents wanting to meet him is an advantage, bring him over! And I'm sure he'll want to introduce you with his parents, so there's another opportunity. Once everyone knows everyone, I'm sure both your parents would be more lenient on seeing each other. Your families could go on vacation with you guys, so you could all hang out.

Egypt: are you a fan of Denzel Washington?

I used to be a fan & then I think he started to be so boring I don't why, felt like he's repeating himself or his characters or may be the way he acts.

What does it mean when you have a dream about somone you barley know?

So, I had this dream about this girl that goes to my high school. But what is weird is I was dreaming in my dream (dream within a dream) and I was dreaming about this girl and she really liked me and we were watching a movie in my basement and she picked up my arms and put them around her to cuddle, and she stopped herself and realized she made a mistake, but I said it was okay because I liked her back. So I woke up from that dream (in reality I'm still dreaming) and I thought it was interesting so I texted her and we hung out and pretty much the same thing happened, we ended up liking eachorher and everything. Then we were in the TV show Glee but that's irrevelant. So anyways, this girl I dreamed about is cute, but I never had a crush on her or anything, but I barley barley know her nor think about her. Last time I actually talked to her was during Cross Country 10 months ago. So, what do you guys think this means?

My puppy has Parvo. What can I do?

Parvo is devastating and deadly, the only hope a dog has is to get to a vet immediately at the first signs of symptoms, otherwise the prognosis is sudden death. Very important to keep up puppy shots on time, they can still get it and die before getting the final booster. I am sorry but unless you can get puppy to a emergent vet right away, likely he won't make it.

Why would god give us the ability to question him?

If it's wrong to question god and doubt him, why did he give us the ability to do so? Why does he need to test us? For some sick thrills? If god is full of love, why didn't he just create us all as happy, dumb creatures that always get along and never question anything? He wants to see his children fail and burn for exhibiting the traits he gave us in the first place?

Am I a lesbian! or am I just straight but think girls are pretty LESBIANS ONLY ANSWER?

now i know exactly what you mean.i have always said i am not a lesbian but can most defiantly understand why ppl choose tht.woman are beautiful in every aspect.i do like the vagina,as far as pretty goes.and i think a cock is ugly.when i was younger i kissed my best friend and well...experimented but i am very much straight,not even bi.but lesbians turn me on more than guys.sometimes just because certain things stimulate you,does not mean your one way or the other. girls turn me on,but i would never be with one,even for fun.i experimented when i was younger though,and lesbian porn turns me on more than a guy doing a girl would.but again im straight.and shes right who ever said you have to answer it on your own..you have to know your self.your sexual orientation is not the same as your sexual stimulations

How exactly do you cuddle with your friend? Please Help!?

Me and my friend are going to cuddle today. We're both girls and I've never cuddled with anyone before. And well she has and I don't want to suck. So what should I do to make her wanna cuddle me again?

Need help soon to be in long distance relationship(10 points for best answer)?

You can let your parents meet your boyfriend that's a start, you all can meet with each other go to the movies or something, you guys don't live that far from each other 3 hours, not really a long distance relationship to me, you probably wouldn't have no trouble meeting up with him, since your parents know about him, just make plans with him sometimes and you guys can meet up.

How to hide that you're cuddling?

Me & my friend love to cuddle with each other but we don't want anybody else to see. How do we hide it?

New guinea pigs not moving ? Old?

remeber its recently if there eating and drinking great they obviously are moving maybe it could be the house maybe try a different house if not then ask your vet

My new puppy won't stop crying?

Shes a baby, of course shes attached to you. You are her "mother" and you should be giving her cuddles and lots of fuss. Shes in a new world with you which she will need to get used to. So, you will need to perseevere until she settles in.

Friday, July 15, 2011

Training Day (the movie) confused?

cause denzel was playing games with him and trying to scare him. denzel had everyone else do his dirty work. those guys were bad too. they were like his informants

Since there hasn't been an amendment to the Constitution who has the power to declare War?POTUS? Congress?

Congress is the only body which can declare war on other countries. The problem with a "war on terror" is that there's no country to declare war on; it's not as clear-cut. It's more a matter of opinion than interpreting the wording of the Constitution.

I like him alot but i cant do nothing about it???:( helpz?

ok. Hi. Um my heart has been recently broken by my guy best friend. Ya i fell for him, pretty stupied. Umm. My friend erica introduced me to a dude named austin! Hes same age, kinda emo,and hot! We get along real good. We have only been friendz for 3 months. Anyways only time i got to see him is when i went to ericas house. And well ive snuck out one night but only bc thats bc i saw the dude that broke my heart. Well he held me and told me everything is ok. Calm down. He cuddled with me. He told me he liked me. I told him the same. But we cant even do or go anywhere. My dad is overly protective and my mom is dead. By the way im 13 so is he..i dont think its considered sneakn out if u just walk down threw the paster and sit in an old deer stand. I just need to no how to spend more time with him?

Boyfriend is weird after sex?

Is this normal? I really love him. And before we have sex he is usually really sweet. All his attention is on me. He wants to hold me and tell me how he feels. But then after sex he is really aloof. Like he will cuddle with me but i think thats only because he feels that he has too. And he always wants to go do something else like ten minutes after cuddling. He will usually just go to sleep. Or get up and go eat. And it just seems like hes not as nice as he is before we do it. And its not even like its an obvious change its just the little things. And i don't think he is doing it on purpose. Could it be that he doesn't love me?

Considering Leaving Marraige?

I have been with my husband for 5 years, married 1. He is a heavy pot smoker, and I started almost two years ago after a car accident to try and relieve pain, and because I felt we would get along better (he also grows). He has also has a big porn addiction. I caught him right before he proposed to me on a trashy dating website telling a woman how beautiful she was trying to get pictures and I almost left him over it....Last month he had porn all over my house and I found out he was masturbating in a public place (Gym Sauna). Hell froze over. He was being lazy, not helping with the chores, never saves his money, and he is not very educated, we have never really had personal conversations and now I feel stupid. We are good friends but I am starting to wonder if he should have only stayed as a friend. We have sports in common and when we are doing something physical we are great, but when we go out to dinner or do something just the two of us he talks about construction and how he hates mexicans. I am in a business field, and I cannot talk to him about my job because he doesnt understand it and he doesn't really hold much value in it. I am a good looking woman, and I constantly have men wanting to sweep me away but I dont want to hurt my husbands feelings or feel like I failed. I have been silent for so long with my husband because of his temper and I just try to keep a smile on my face and suck it up, but I dont think I can continue. This last month I finally said something and we have been at odds ever since. I want someone who I can share a mental relationship with. I want to feel like I can talk to them about kids, money and life without feeling like I have to guide them every step of the way. I want to feel like I am taken care of rather than being the care taker. My husband has done a 180 recently with helping out and has been doing chores, cuddling with me, and trying to spend time, but I cannot seem to get the mental connection of feeling close to him. I am no longer smoking because of my jobs demands and I dont think it was really helping. I am lost and I need help. I want to go to a marriage counselor but I know when we do go he will complain about the money and having to take time off of work.

I think i'm still in love with her, what should i do?

hmm.. you obviously didn't mean enough to her before because she stayed with her boyfriend over you, he was the one who finished with her, right? I think you should just move on, just enjoy the memories that you have.

What does this dream mean?

So, I had this dream about this girl that goes to my high school. But what is weird is I was dreaming in my dream (dream within a dream) and I was dreaming about this girl and she really liked me and we were watching a movie in my basement and she picked up my arms and put them around her to cuddle, and she stopped herself and realized she made a mistake, but I said it was okay because I liked her back. So I woke up from that dream (in reality I'm still dreaming) and I thought it was interesting so I texted her and we hung out and pretty much the same thing happened, we ended up liking eachorher and everything. Then we were in the TV show Glee but that's irrevelant. So anyways, this girl I dreamed about is really cute, and I can see myself with her, but I barley barley know her nor think about her. Last time I actually talked to her was during Cross Country 10 months ago. So, what do you guys think this means?

Why do people dislike gay and lesbian people?

Because they don't understand it and are scared of the unknown. I am in high school and I am totally fine with gays and lesbians, I'm even fine with same sex marriage (unlike the rest of my family). Most people at my school think the same way you used to, but there also a group of people who are fine with gays and lesbians, because, after all, they are still human, and they do derserve respect, and to be happy like the rest of us.

What's wrong with my bird's beak?

My cockatiel's beak grows too much, her beak grows almost to the bottom of her head and her lower jaw is growing a bit too. We have a cuddle bone in our cage that the other one chews on, his beak is fine. But she chews it a bit and her beak still gets longer! Her jaw has even shifted to the right from all the extra beak. Does she have a calcium problem. Please answer.

Should I Tell Him I Like Him?

So since March I've been dating a guy I was set up with by my Aunt and Uncle and their friend (the guys older brother). I really like this guy, and over the past few months we've held hands, hugged, cuddled, texted, hung out, gone on dates, etc. Last night I was at his house and while we were talking he brought up the fact that his friends have asked about me and apparently at his basketball tournament, when we walked into the gym and went to sit by them, they all clapped for us. (I didn't notice until he told me later... Yes, I'm oblivious.) ANYWAY... so he admitted to us "going out", meaning we're dating, but not together, per say. So, my question is... should I just tell him I like him next time we hang out? I kinda need help... (:

I am 18 and have walked on my tiptoes since I was a toddler. Could something be wrong?

I have no known nerological or physical problems. In fact, I am valedictorian this year of my senior class, and I am considered to be very intelligent. It has never really posed a problem (besides a little teasing) until a teacher told me that her friend's son walks on his tiptoes and he has autism. I noticed that on the toddler page people assured a mother that is was just a phase kids grow out of and that "you never see an adult walking on their tiptoes." Um. yeah. exhibit A.

Does he care about me or using me?

He certainly doesn't treat people well from what you've just described. Plus you are in love with him and he knows it. He will take advantage of this to try and have sex with you and tell you it's you he likes but he can't leave his girlfriend just now due to her problems. Find someone decent.